Man seeks relationship advice after breaking his girl’s heart.
I like this girl. I probably love her, but I broke her heart and I am regretting it now. We started going out 3 years ago then we broke up after a year of dating. Our situation just got boring and tiring so I left her and she started seeing somebody else.
A year ago, we started to reconnect but she was still dating the same guy. I got her to break up with him so we can hook up then I dumped her again after. I ignored her for a little bit to play hard to get, but I find out that she’s dating another guy. Now, I want her back! I tried to call her, text her and leave messages on her in every social media account she has, but she blocked me! I am starting to think that it was a mistake to ignore her. Is there anything you can do to help me? – Full of regrets
Hey Full of regrets,
Thank you for taking the time to share your dilemma.
Well, it sounds like you have finally realized you have feelings for her but you aren’t ready to admit it to yourself. You don’t want to admit it to yourself. I’m guessing this girl wore her heart on her sleeves, but you decided that you just want to keep her around when you were bored and you needed some ego boost. This is unfair and degrading to a woman who did nothing but care for you and maybe stood by your side even when you did not need it.
She’s finally moved on from you after you lead her on for years and by blocking you, you should take the hint. She wants you out of her life and she wants you to leave her alone. Respect that. Give her that at least since you did not respect her in the past. If you really want her in your life that bad, I’d urge you to make a bold move and get out of your way to see her. But if you don’t feel like doing any of that, just leave it the way it is. Leave her alone and let her be happy.
It’s time for you to move on as well. Maybe this girl was just put in your path so you can realize that you are probably ready to be in a relationship. You met her so you’ll learn and know what kind of woman you need to be with. Next time you do realize you like someone, stop playing games and just be straightforward about your feelings so you don’t wind up in the same situation again.
If you were to weigh in on his situation, what would you tell him? Don’t hesitate to leave your comments below!