He Likes You. He Likes You Not! Here’s How To Know If He’s Interested In You!

He likes you. Three words that we always want to hear from somebody confirming that the guy we’re crushing on likes us, too. But that isn’t always the case, isn’t it?

Are you sick and tired of guessing if your date is interested in you? Have you ever wondered if your office crush likes you, too? Or are you still in that stage where you’re trying to get that hottie from chem lab to even notice you?

Wouldn’t it be great if we could just read their minds?

Picture this:

A cute guy walks by and his forehead lights up and there’s a sign saying “I like you.”

Seriously, that’d make our lives so much easier! Unfortunately, we aren’t living in a perfect world and men aren’t high tech robots like that.

He likes you. He likes you not! It’s time to get an answer from that age old question!

Sign That He Likes You #1 : He Leans Forward When You Talk

It’s universal knowledge that leaning forward is a body language that conveys a sign of interest. Anyone who leans forward when you’re talking means he is interested in what you have to say or he wants to hear, smell or even see you better.

Next time you’re with that man candy, observe his body language when you talk. If he leans forward and his arms starts playfully brushing against yours, he’s itching to get close to you and touch you.

Sign That He Likes You #2 : He Makes The First Move

We all know that in this day and age, women are go getters. They can date, text or talk to whoever they want to. Some guys like that, but let’s not forget the ladies who still believe in the old fashioned customs of dating. For women, like me, who are shy – we might not find out if a guy likes us unless they ask us out or make the first move.

In this case, a guy who initiates is a guy who is interested to get to know you. It’s simple, when you catch a guy’s attention and/or interest – even if you’re across the room, they’ll reach out to you. They’ll come to you and strike up a conversation. They might even ask your number or just ask you out on a date point blank.

Men are simple creatures and a guy who likes you will make the first move so he can talk to you, get close to you or even spend time with you.

Sign That He Likes You #3 : His Pupils Dilate When He Looks At You

No, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s on drugs if his pupils are dilated when he looks at you. Pupil dilation is also a sign of attraction; A study indicated that our pupils dilate up to three times larger its normal size when we see someone we are physically or sexually attracted to.

So the next time you go on a date and you see your date’s eyes dilate when he sees you, if he’s not high – it probably means he saw something he likes or someone he feels excited about.

Sign That He Likes You #4 : He’s Mirroring Your Actions

This is something that we do not notice easily, but it is real. Mirroring is a subconscious imitation of another person’s behavior, speech or nonverbal gestures. It often happens when we are around people that we are close to like family and friends or people with whom we share similar attitudes and beliefs – even the ones that we have not yet discovered.

We may not admit this, but we are all vain in our own way. We are attracted to people who are slightly similar to us or who share similar interests with us. When a guy mirrors your movements, it may be a sign that you two have things in common and he is interested in you. You’ll know it’s mirroring when you grab your glass and he takes his, too. You’re stuffing your face with that garlic bread then he starts taking a bite as well. More often than not, he doesn’t even know he is doing it – but mirroring is often an unconscious tell when men like someone.

Sign That He Likes You #5 : He Will Tell You

Like I always say, men are simple creatures and easy to understand. When they like you, they will tell you straight up. They won’t play games, they won’t confuse you, they won’t send you mixed signals, they won’t tell you they’ll call but never do, they won’t keep you hanging because only boys do that.

Guys who do that are still immature and they are not worth your time. Trust me when I say, REAL MEN who really like you will not beat around the bush. They’ll call you, tell you and show you how much they like you. Period.

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