Introverts Make Great Lovers – 8 Things Nobody Tells You About Dating An Introvert

Introverts are often misconstrued as socially awkward people. They’re deep thinkers and often shy in social situations that people automatically assume they’re just boring dweebs. Contrary to popular belief, introverts can be social butterflies, too. They are just word economists who love introspection and practice a focused communication style. These things are few of the many reasons why introverts make great lovers as well.

Can this be really true?

I’m glad you asked. Spare me 6 minutes of your time and I’ll tell you 8 reasons why introverts make great lovers:

Introverts Make Great Lovers Because They Won’t Bore You With Small Talk

Introverts Make Great Lovers - 8 Things Nobody Tells You About Dating An Introvert

You know who loves meaningful conversations? Introverts. They won’t engage in small talk just for the heck of it. They won’t just talk to you to ask you “hey, what’s up?” – they’ll talk to you because they want to get to know you. Introverts will ask you about your favorite color, your favorite ice cream flavor or about the things that keep you up at night.

Introverts are the kind of people that would want to talk to about the meaning of life, death, aliens, sex or even magic. You won’t have to worry or be afraid of telling them your insecurities because they won’t judge you. They just want to understand your heart and get to know you.

Introverts Make Great Lovers Because They’ll Give You Their Undivided Attention

When an introvert wants to hang out with you, they will give you their undivided attention. Introverts like their alone time and if they’re spending it with you, it’s because they actually wanted to. When you’re on a date with your introverted lover and you’re talking, expect them to listen to you closely. They won’t be distracted by their phones, the internet or social media, they’ll only focus on you and what you have to say.

Introverts Make Great Lovers Because They’re Big On Intimacy

Introverts Make Great Lovers - 8 Things Nobody Tells You About Dating An Introvert

With introverts, everything is a process even sex. That just made it sound boring, but hear me out. When it comes to sex, introverted lovers don’t just jump your bones or rip your clothes off because they want to do it. Introverts will start with a little foreplay. They’ll explore your body like it’s a freakin wonderland, they won’t rush you and they’re going to make you feel like you can trust them. Your introverted lover will take their time until you’re both extremely turned on, comfortable and ready.

Introverts Make Great Lovers Because They’ll Respect Your Need For Alone Time

As I’ve mentioned earlier, one of the things introverts love the most apart from the solitude is their alone time. It’s the time they can practice their passions, spend time with themselves and explore their colorful imagination. We lose pieces of ourselves when we are in a relationship, having alone time allows us to keep in touch with our individuality. So if you also need your alone time, your introverted lover will happily give it to you because they understand how important it is.

Introverts Make Great Lovers Because They’re Great Listeners

Introverts Make Great Lovers Because They're Great Listeners  Introverts are calm and quiet by nature because they need silence is vital to their health and happiness. Thanks to solitude, it molded them into becoming great listeners. When you talk, they'll look at you in the eyes and read between the lines. A study confirms that an introvert's brain responds differently because they digest information more deeply. So don't be surprised if one day he/she remembers what you said a while ago, it just means he/she was listening when you were talking about it.

Introverts are calm and quiet by nature because they need silence is vital to their health and happiness. Thanks to solitude, it molded them into becoming great listeners. When you talk, they’ll look at you in the eyes and read between the lines. A study confirms that an introvert’s brain responds differently because they digest information more deeply. So don’t be surprised if one day he/she remembers what you said a while ago, it just means he/she was listening when you were talking about it.

Introverts Make Great Lovers Because They Will Love Your Soul

Physical attraction is a given, but introverted lovers don’t find it necessary for them to fall in love with a person. Introverts will make love with your mind and soul before they even touch your body. They will love the things you hate about yourself that one day, you’ll start falling in love with yourself even more.

Introverts Make Great Lovers Because They Don’t Just Want Sex, They’ll Make Love To You

Introverts Make Great Lovers Because They Don't Just Want Sex, They'll Make Love To You  Introverts don't just love meaningful conversations, they also love meaningful relationships. They want genuine, loving and longterm connections rather than engaging in one night stands or devoting their feelings and time to people who are not interested in intimate and personal relationships. If you have an introverted lover, you can rest assured that they're not just using you for sex. You're not just a fling, you actually mean something to him/her.

Introverts don’t just love meaningful conversations, they also love meaningful relationships. They want genuine, loving and longterm connections rather than engaging in one night stands. They won’t devote their feelings and time to people who are not interested in intimate and personal relationships. If you have an introverted lover, you can rest assured that they’re not just using you for sex. You’re not just a fling, you actually mean something to him/her.

Introverts Make Great Lovers Because They Mean What They Say

Introverts always think before they speak. They don’t waste their time or words with useless chatter. So when they say you’re beautiful and they love you, believe them. Your introverted lover thought it through and those words came from the heart.

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Relationship Advice: My Girlfriend Caught Me Texting My Ex-Girlfriend And Accuses Me Of Cheating!

In the past Relationship Advice Wednesdays, we’ve had love struck friends wondering what to do with his girlfriend who is mistreating him. There’s that guy who took his girl for granted, but wants her back. Then we got the girl who was torn between two lovers.

Well this week, we’ve got a letter from a guy who has been accused of cheating after his girlfriend caught him texting his ex. Let’s hear his story:

Hey LD,

My girlfriend and I just had a huge fight! She caught me texting my ex and now she’s accusing me of cheating on her. I wasn’t kissing my ex or going on dates with her. I haven’t even slept with her in months since we broke up. How can that be cheating? –Not A Cheater

Relationship Advice:

Hey Not A Cheater,

Let’s get down to brass tacks. Cheating… What is cheating? Sure, the definition of this horrible act is subjective, but you betrayed your girlfriend’s trust. You said she “caught” you texting, it means that you never told her that you were talking to your ex. You probably didn’t even want to tell her or want her to know because it might “hurt” her. Well, the fact that you already did. You entertaining your ex behind your new girlfriend’s back is an act of dishonesty. Dishonesty is one of the many branches of cheating.

I do not blame your girlfriend if she gets mad at you or if she even breaks up with you. You broke her trust and now she feels like she’s just a second option. By the way, it is a known fact that you do not have to engage in sexual intercourse to consider it cheating. What is your business texting your ex anyway? Do you still have feelings for her? Do you still love her? An ex is an ex for a reason, your relationship ended because something was not working. You’ve both been broken up for months, why didn’t you guys keep in contact during the times you were both available?

Your ex might just be trolling your new relationship to know if you’re still into her and she just needs a little ego boost. Don’t feed the troll. If you still love your ex, do your new girlfriend a favor and let her go. She deserves someone better than you.

If you love your new girlfriend, you need to apologize to her and assure her there’s nothing going on with you and your ex. Tell her you’re an idiot for even doing it, you’re not going back to your ex and she’s not a second option.

What Relationship Advice Can I Give You About Your EX?

As for your ex, cut her off. You don’t need someone who can potentially put a wedge between your relationship with your new girlfriend. Leave the past in the past and move forward by nurturing your new relationship.

I hope this helps!

If not, feel free to write again.

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He Likes You. He Likes You Not! Here’s How To Know If He’s Interested In You!

He likes you. Three words that we always want to hear from somebody confirming that the guy we’re crushing on likes us, too. But that isn’t always the case, isn’t it?

Are you sick and tired of guessing if your date is interested in you? Have you ever wondered if your office crush likes you, too? Or are you still in that stage where you’re trying to get that hottie from chem lab to even notice you?

Wouldn’t it be great if we could just read their minds?

Picture this:

A cute guy walks by and his forehead lights up and there’s a sign saying “I like you.”

Seriously, that’d make our lives so much easier! Unfortunately, we aren’t living in a perfect world and men aren’t high tech robots like that.

He likes you. He likes you not! It’s time to get an answer from that age old question!

Sign That He Likes You #1 : He Leans Forward When You Talk

It’s universal knowledge that leaning forward is a body language that conveys a sign of interest. Anyone who leans forward when you’re talking means he is interested in what you have to say or he wants to hear, smell or even see you better.

Next time you’re with that man candy, observe his body language when you talk. If he leans forward and his arms starts playfully brushing against yours, he’s itching to get close to you and touch you.

Sign That He Likes You #2 : He Makes The First Move

We all know that in this day and age, women are go getters. They can date, text or talk to whoever they want to. Some guys like that, but let’s not forget the ladies who still believe in the old fashioned customs of dating. For women, like me, who are shy – we might not find out if a guy likes us unless they ask us out or make the first move.

In this case, a guy who initiates is a guy who is interested to get to know you. It’s simple, when you catch a guy’s attention and/or interest – even if you’re across the room, they’ll reach out to you. They’ll come to you and strike up a conversation. They might even ask your number or just ask you out on a date point blank.

Men are simple creatures and a guy who likes you will make the first move so he can talk to you, get close to you or even spend time with you.

Sign That He Likes You #3 : His Pupils Dilate When He Looks At You

No, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s on drugs if his pupils are dilated when he looks at you. Pupil dilation is also a sign of attraction; A study indicated that our pupils dilate up to three times larger its normal size when we see someone we are physically or sexually attracted to.

So the next time you go on a date and you see your date’s eyes dilate when he sees you, if he’s not high – it probably means he saw something he likes or someone he feels excited about.

Sign That He Likes You #4 : He’s Mirroring Your Actions

This is something that we do not notice easily, but it is real. Mirroring is a subconscious imitation of another person’s behavior, speech or nonverbal gestures. It often happens when we are around people that we are close to like family and friends or people with whom we share similar attitudes and beliefs – even the ones that we have not yet discovered.

We may not admit this, but we are all vain in our own way. We are attracted to people who are slightly similar to us or who share similar interests with us. When a guy mirrors your movements, it may be a sign that you two have things in common and he is interested in you. You’ll know it’s mirroring when you grab your glass and he takes his, too. You’re stuffing your face with that garlic bread then he starts taking a bite as well. More often than not, he doesn’t even know he is doing it – but mirroring is often an unconscious tell when men like someone.

Sign That He Likes You #5 : He Will Tell You

Like I always say, men are simple creatures and easy to understand. When they like you, they will tell you straight up. They won’t play games, they won’t confuse you, they won’t send you mixed signals, they won’t tell you they’ll call but never do, they won’t keep you hanging because only boys do that.

Guys who do that are still immature and they are not worth your time. Trust me when I say, REAL MEN who really like you will not beat around the bush. They’ll call you, tell you and show you how much they like you. Period.

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